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The Joys of Homeschooling Older Children

Homeschooling has plenty of HARD days. 

No matter the stage your children are at, homeschooling is just an immense undertaking. 

We have homeschooled through job changes, illness, home remodeling, chronic pain, teen hormones, and so much more.  There have been times where it would have been SO MUCH EASIER to enroll my children in school. 

This year - the year where my children are  9th and 5th graders - has been PIVOTAL.  We've completed the first year of high school for Anna, and we're getting ready for middle school with Grant. These children are growing at an astounding rate, and I'm just trying to keep up!

 I am beginning to see the fruits of our labor. The kids are becoming independent learners and excellent homeschool ambassadors to boot! 

As the school year draws to a close, my heart is FULL. I want to celebrate the many successes, because those keep me going through the hard days. 

Homeschooling older children is immensely rewarding, and if you don't gain anything else from this post, I want you to gain this:  It is WORTH IT to homeschool your older children.  

 

The Joys and Blessings of Homeschooling Older Children

Homeschooling a Pre-Teen Boy

My son literally appears bigger to me each and every morning when he gets out of bed. 

His CC Foundations class this year was all boys. They had a joke with their tutor, Miss Dawn -- that they would all be taller than her by the end of the year! Each Tuesday they would come to CC and measure themselves against her. Lo and behold, they are all taller than she is now. 

This is such a critical time for boys. They are still little boys, but they are quickly turning into young men, and guiding them is such a privilege. 

Each week Dawn would end each class session with the boys huddled in prayer. These boys grew into such considerate, helpful, and generous young men. I cannot accurately express what this year did for Grant, but I am fairly certain he couldn't have gotten this in a traditional school setting.  

A couple of weeks ago Grant earned the distinction of Memory Master!  What does that mean? It means he memorized and was tested on:

  • 160 events and people in a chronological timeline
  • 24 history sentences
  • 44 US Presidents
  • 120 locations and geographic features 
  • 24 science facts
  • 5 Latin declensions and the Latin noun cases
  • English grammar facts  (all of the prepositions, linking verbs, and helping verbs - and their definitions)
  • Multiplication tables up to the 15s, squares, cubes, geometry formulas, unit conversions, and algebraic laws of addition and multiplication

This information has to be 100% memorized and recalled with ZERO mistakes. Yes, his dad and I are proud of him, but more importantly Grant proved to himself that hard work and perseverance pay off in spades!

Memory Master & More

He's learned so much through completing the Veritas Self-Paced Ancient History course. We're wrapping up the year with a read-aloud, The Cat of Bubastes -- it's hard, but oh so good!  

A huge joy this year has been our homeschool tennis group. This once a week lesson has spurred an interest in Grant, and now he is playing two more times a week at our local YMCA. 

We are also leaving for Hawaii in just 10 DAYS (squeal!) and Grant has been completing the Hawaii notebooking state study from Notebooking Pages.  This has been a super way to learn about our destination and also to document that knowledge. I'm having him keep a journal while we are there and I hope this will be a nice keepsake for him. 


Challenge I Presentations

Challenge I has been a pivotal year for Anna. She has become almost 100% independent in her school work and is responsible for planning all of her work. 

(I shared a few months ago about a day in the life of a Challenge I student)

In short, Anna's 9th grade year has consisted of the following academic seminars:

  • Henle Latin I
  • American Literature and Persuasive Essay Writing
  • Free Market Economics and American Government
  • Physical Science
  • Drama and Music Theory
  • Algebra

She is also taking piano lessons, singing in a large children's chorus here in Atlanta, and playing tennis on the homeschool tennis team. She's been a busy girl, but I'm ok with that as long as everything has a PURPOSE and is of value to her. 

Challenge End of Year Presentations

The last day of Challenge I was Tuesday, and I had the great JOY of watching presentations from all of the students.

The Cost of Living project was particularly interesting! Anna had to choose a future profession (she chose Occupational Therapy), research the salary for that profession, and then come up with a working budget for herself.  She created a Keynote presentation and presented to the class.

Wow is all I can say. 

Another presentation was the music theory hymn score analysis and transposition project. Using the music theory curriculum each student was able to successfully analyze a hymn using figured bass and put that hymn into a different key. 

This project was DIFFICULT, but everyone rose to the occasion and I was so proud of them. (I had the JOY of helping them through this curriculum and it's one of my favorite things I have done as a homeschooling mom.)

Anna still has her Memoria Press Latin class and Mr. D Algebra I that are still meeting... and of course there are finals to be studied for. 

I've been sitting back a lot recently and just marveling at everything she has learned and accomplished this year.  It's just so very good.


Challenge Protocol Event

Challenge I Protocol

A highlight of Challenge I is Protocol.

Protocol is a formal event hosted for all Challenge I students and older... the Challenge I moms plan this event and invite the other Challenges (II-IV) to attend.

In the weeks preceding the event the students received etiquette instruction before normal classes started each Tuesday.  

Our group chose to have dinner at a nice restaurant locally and then attend a production of Hansel & Gretel by the Georgia State Opera Theater

Watching these young people conduct themselves so beautifully during an evening out was a JOY. They have come to be such good friends to one another, and I couldn't help but think how completely DIFFERENT this was from a traditional PROM experience. 

There was no PROM DRAMA (and I've been hearing stories about this from friends who have children in school) and the expense of this event was minimal. This also wasn't a time for dates, but rather a time for everyone to enjoy an evening out together as a group. 

The opera was a perfect introduction to the genre. It was sung in English, and even included the words on a screen above the stage. This is commonly performed and I would recommend going to see it if you ever get the chance -- maybe you're familiar with this piece:

Parents of younger CC students: keep the faith!  It is events like this that make all of the hard work worth it!


May the 4th Be With You

One of the most fun things this school year has been starting a LEGO club for my son's friends. 

A wonderful young man (who is also in my daughter's Challenge I class and LOVES LEGOS) is my very capable assistant. We meet every other week and have a ton of fun and learn a lot, too! 

Normally we are using materials from LEGO® Education, but this week we skipped the "learning" and just went for pure Star Wars FUN! 

This week we decided to celebrate May the 4th! 

 

May the 4th Be With You Party

Our agenda for May the 4th was as follows:


There is so much more I could share with you... but I'll save that for future posts. 

I'd love to hear from you! Do you homeschool older children? Or, do you have questions about homeschooling older children?  This is a new stage of life for me and I'm trying to embrace it fully (while quietly mourning the "littles" I used to have in my house!). 

 


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10 Reasons To Homeschool Your Children

Homeschooling isn't always a bed of roses. 

Shouldering the responsibility of your child's education can often be overwhelming, scary, and intimidating. 

To make matters worse, we are living in a culture that teaches us that, as parents, we aren't capable of EDUCATING our children.

We should leave education to the PROFESSIONALS.

It's impossible to homeschool high school subjects like Calculus and Physics.

Children need to be SOCIALIZED. 

How will your homeschooled child play football? 

How will they get into college? 

If you homeschool you will miss your "ME" time.

(and so it goes...)

10 Reasons You Should Homeschool Your Children

 

As I look back to the THREE YEARS my husband and I thought about homeschooling our children (yes, we actually debated the merits of homeschooling for three years), I can list for you every doubt and fear we (and our extended families and friends) had. If you ever ask yourself "should I homeschool my child", I know these reasons will help you get the answer.

Don't listen to the doubts. Don't listen to well meaning friends and family members. Don't listen to a society that wants parents to abdicate their very important role in educating their children.

Your children are YOURS. They are with you for a short time, and you have what it takes to homeschool them.  

So... as I look back at a typical homeschool week I'm struck with 10 reasons to homeschool your children. 

Because I THINK YOU CAN DO IT! 


1. Time For Kids to be Kids

Homeschooling allows our KIDS to be KIDS. They aren't confined to the same 4 walls every day (which kind of resembles prison to me).

They are free to explore, wonder, and create. 

They are free to get lost in play and magical worlds. 

I watched my son this week at his Classical Conversations Foundations class -- the class of boys was reviewing their memory work outside, through games and play. What better way to help children learn than to meet them where they are... not stuff them into a desk and have them read from a dry textbook. 

I'm so thankful my kids had rich childhoods, and I think homeschool is a large part of this.

Let your kids be kids.  Homeschool them!

2. Quality Curriculum

When you homeschool you can choose what you want your children to learn. 

I realize that some well meaning family and friends might know "that" homeschool family that slacks off in this area, but I know plenty of homeschooling families that put a lot of time and prayer into deciding what their children will learn. 

We have chosen a rich Classical education for our children and love to have a lot of literature in our home.

This week my kids have been reading The Old Man and The Sea, The Boy and His Horse, and The Golden Goblet

Gone are the days of the evolutionist science textbooks and the inaccurate, dry history books. 

You are able to expose your children to a wealth of beautiful knowledge when you homeschool.

3. More Time For Hands-On Activities

Because of the smaller class size (wink), homeschool kids can learn in quite a different way.

The volume of hands-on learning is amazing to me.

This week my son learned more about the zones of the ocean by creating a model of the zones. He researched, planned, created -- and then executed a presentation for his Foundations class.  

If my children were still in traditional school they would be crammed into a desk most of the day and would grow to hate school by the time 4th or 5th grade rolled around. 

Homeschooling allows us our children to learn in the way that best works for kids -- by DOING! 

4. Increased Family Time/Transmission of Values

Our family spends A LOT of time together.

This means we see the good, the bad, and the ugly in each other all the time.

We learn to be patient, forgiving, and kind. We learn to pull together through illness, tragedies, and celebrations.

My children aren't shielded from real life, and I'm thankful for that. 

Because we are together so much, my husband and I are free to instill our values in our children -- not DEPROGRAM them after they come home from school! 

We start each day with a morning time - devotions, fine arts, memory work, and more. This 30-45 minutes centers my kids and sets the tone for the day.

Hopefully this togetherness is instilling a strong sense of family and commitment in my children! 

10 Reasons You Should Homeschool Your Children

5. Increased Independence

Now that my oldest is in high school, I am starting to see this benefit of independence. 

She plans her entire week and then is responsible for turning in her assignments at the end of that week.  In her Challenge I class she is responsible for semester long projects. 

Having our home as a safe place to fail has allowed her to experience failure under our roof. 

She also takes two online classes, and is gaining the experience of reporting to and learning from other adults. These classes present the syllabus for the year and require her to do a lot of advanced planning. 

If she were in traditional school she would have teachers telling her what to do every step of the way, taking very little control of her daily time. I believe this is why so many college freshman have a hard time - because they haven't had much independence in the high school years. 

Homeschooling creates independent young adults. 

 

6. Reclaiming Your OWN Education

This is a purely selfish reason to homeschool your children.

I've learned SO MUCH through homeschooling my children.

This semester I'm tackling a very difficult music theory curriculum alongside my daughter, and I'm reading A LOT of great literature with her, too. (I just finished The Old Man and the Sea in preparation for a discussion with my daughter next week.)

Through learning the Foundations Memory Work with my son, I'm learning more than I ever did in my school career!

I never realized how dumb I was until I started homeschooling! 

7. Deeper Friendships

When it comes to friendships, we believe in going deep rather than wide.

My kids each have a few good friends, but not a lot of friends.

I'm totally ok with this.

As a homeschool parent I can guide my children through friendship issues, and I also know all of their friends' parents very well. 

We're teaching our children to be accepting, kind, and discerning in their friendships. There is very little teasing, bullying, or typical "friendship drama" in the homeschool arena.

Again - I think this is a myth of childhood -- that kids are just mean and there will be lots of hurt feelings and friendship issues as kids grow up.

Schools are NOT conducive to nurturing friendships, but HOMESCHOOLS are. 

10 Reasons You Should Homeschool Your Children

8. More Sleep and Better Health

Kids need sleep. Period.

Early school start times aren't conducive to kids getting the sleep they need (especially in their teenage years).

Better sleep leads to better health.

This has been one of the most unexpected benefits of homeschooling -- happier and healthier (and more well rested) children.

9. FREEDOM

We no longer live by the schedule of the public or private schools. 

We are free to take vacations or take advantage of special opportunities in the community as the need arises.

I heard a parent recently expressing concern because her child could only take two field trips per year in her public school. That was so sad to me... that kids have to be confined all day every day. 

Homeschoolers are free to go where they want, when they want. They are free to teach what they want when they want.

I do not take these freedoms for granted, and pray our country continues to support them. 

10. Life is Short

This one is simple.

Our kids are little but a short time. We need to savor each and every moment with them.

When my kids tell me they remember our Lewis & Clarke Expedition when they were little it does my heart such good. 

When we get enthralled with The Chronicles of Narnia and don't get off the couch for two hours we are creating lifelong memories. 

When we stop our homeschooling to go help a grandparent in need we are LIVING the values of a family.

One day soon my kids will be out of my home and living their own lives.

I'm so thankful homeschooling has let me savor this short window in their lives!


What's your top reason for homeschooling?  Or, if you don't homeschool --- what's stopping you?  

Let's get a conversations started in the comments below.

10 Reasons You Should Homeschool Your Children

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